Children and pets can form wonderful bonds and many parents aspire for their children to grow up alongside furry companions. When introducing them for the first time, it’s essential to establish a safe and comfortable environment where children and pets can begin to familiarise themselves with each other. Having pets is a great way of introducing responsibility in the home for your children. Establishing household guidelines for children (and sometimes adults) can aid in their learning and comprehension of what is expected in terms of caring for their new furry family member.
Introducing a puppy or kitten to children
When introducing a new puppy or kitten to the family, consider these tips below to create a welcoming and happy environment for your new pet:
-avoid shouting or using loud voices around your kitten or puppy
-engage in gentle stroking – reserve petting for when they approach you
-refrain from disturbing your pet when they are asleep or enjoying quiet time in their designated space.
-never leave your pet unsupervised with children.
-each household is unique and the specific rules you adopt will naturally vary based on your family’s individual circumstances.
Instruct children to be calm and gentle when interacting with their pet. It’s crucial for younger children to swiftly understand that the new family member is a living, breathing being capable of feeling fear, worry and discomfort just like humans.
The approach to introducing your new pet will vary depending on the age of your child. For younger kids, the focus is on learning how to handle and interact with a cat or dog in a safe manner. Allow your pet to acclimate and become familiar with the new surroundings, providing them with the opportunity to settle into their new home. If you’re bringing home a puppy or kitten, taking proactive steps to prepare your house and family is advisable.
Handling Pets
Every pet is different, and their likes and dislikes when it comes to handling can vary; however, here are some tips for cats and dogs.
Dogs generally enjoy being gently tickled around their chest and neck rather than receiving pats on the head. They may not appreciate hugs, as it can make them feel confined. On the other hand, cats typically enjoy being tickled under their chin and behind their cheeks.
When cats and dogs feel at ease, they frequently approach both children and adults out of natural curiosity. It’s advisable to be patient and allow them to initiate interactions on their own terms. Offering food and treats can serve as encouragement, fostering a bond between pets and children as they become more comfortable taking treats and establishing a connection.
Introducing small creatures to young children
During young developmental stage, children often engage in grabbing and pulling at animals, causing them irritation and discomfort. Pets confined to a cage or tank might be better suited for this scenario, as they provide a safer interaction environment. It is important to consider the size of your pet and adequate sizing of the enclosure, that they have a safe space to hide and the enclosure is placed in a quiet and secure location.
Encourage young children to observe the animals and discuss the importance of treating them respectfully and with care.
Remember, children cannot be expected to be entirely responsible for the animals in the home. An adult will need to assist in cleaning out cages or assisting in feeding, and grooming.
Introducing cats to a baby
When introducing your baby to a cat, choose a neutral area in the house away from their usual eating and sleeping spots. If the cat shows interest, allow them to smell the baby as an initial introduction, and commend and encourage them for their calm behaviour.
It’s important to note that some cats may only briefly acknowledge the new arrival before returning to their usual activities. Particularly with cats, the introduction of a new baby can be unsettling and might even trigger behavioural issues such as house soiling. Indications that your cat is not content include finding them in a crouched position. If they appear tense, with their body held tightly and their tail tucked into their body, these are typical signs of stress or anxiety.
Introducing dogs to a baby
You can prepare your pet for your baby’s arrival by gradually introducing new routines and boundaries. Go at your pet’s pace, helping them build confidence in these new patterns without causing stress. If needed, seek assistance from an accredited behaviourist to facilitate this process. Consider designating specific areas of your home as off-limits; for instance, you may make the upstairs inaccessible using a baby gate. Implementing these boundaries before the baby arrives allows your pet to understand where they are not allowed, creating a safe environment for tasks such as changing diapers, feeding and setting up a play area for your baby.
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